Navigating father-child relationships in single mother families : an exploratory narrative analysis

Abstract

This study explores the intricate dynamics of father-child relationships in single mother households within the Ghanaian context. The key objective is to understand the experiences of mothers and children in single mother households regarding how fathers were perceived, how they cope with the absence of fathers, and most importantly, how this influenced the dynamics of father-child relationships. Underpinned by the the exploratory narrative analysis, I conducted interviews with 25 participants–comprising 15 single mothers and 10 children, which provided authentic and poignant perspectives on the subject matter. The narrative analysis reveals irresponsibility, unreliability, lack of care, and emotional absence in the portrayal of absent fathers. On the emotional influence of fathers’ absence on children, themes such as ‘emotional distress and abandonment,’ resentment, and negative attachment were uncovered. Furthermore, the findings demonstrate that ideologies and emotional complexities embedded in the use of negative language influences the experiences and dynamics of father-child interactions; and these experiences inturn, influence the strong use of negative language. Language, therefore, shapes emotions and vice versa, and experiences reinforce it–making them antecedents of resentment or empathy between children and their absent biological fathers. Key takeaways include fostering open communication, and empathy, challenging structural and social norms, and nurturing supportive ecosystems for single mothers and their children. Overall, the study lays a foundation for future research and interventions that promote well-being and familial bonds within the Ghanaian context.